#UJAMAnniversary

I’ve been teaching UJAM fitness classes for about a year now and never have I been involved with a group (other than my days spent in the BYU dance program) filled with so much energy, love, and passion for each other and what they do.

Last weekend we got to celebrate the third birthday of the UJAM program with the creators, many of the UJAM instructors in the area, and our students in Santa Clara. As our DJ announced in the beginning, what’s brought us together as instructors and as students is a “love of god, love of dance, love of music, and love of people.”

Being a fitness instructor is honestly the best job in the world–you get paid to work out and meet some of the most incredible people in your classes (plus you burn 700+ calories per class and get to eat more ice cream because of it. Hooray!).

For those of you in the area, come join my sweat fest Wednesday nights at Fitness 19 in Pleasanton @ 8pm, then Fridays at Clubsport Pleasanton @ 5:30 pm then every second Saturday morning again at CSP!

Also, the lovely Ashley is teaching in Utah now…check out her classes at Sweaty Chix fitness in Springville and Orem! Woo!

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and then it was Springtime

James and I teach the 4-year-olds in church on Sundays and if eating peeps on the way to church didn’t make it feel like Easter for us, the amount of peeps these kids ate before Sunday school was definitely a reminder. Below is one of our favorites with the usual tomfoolery going on in the background. It takes at least 2 adults to keep the peace with 4 kids every week–I’m sure you can imagine the state of panic I’m in when James travels over weekends.

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(Please note how the little blonde is only a blur and how blue shirt has gone from devil to angel in less than 3 seconds)

We spent the morning at church, picked wildflowers with girlfriends in the afternoon (while James played golf in the garage), then headed to grandma’s for Dinner. The youngest person there was 17 and yes, we still dyed eggs and yes, we still went on a hunt (the eggs were filled with cash, and although several injuries were sustained–I now have $26 more dollars to pay for parking and chai tea lattes. Win.

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My attempt at an “ombre” egg that more than likely belongs on Pinterest Fails.

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The weather is finally starting to warm up and we’re beginning to remember why we pay four times the rent we paid in Utah to live here. We hope Spring has found you in your own corners too!

Recent Reads

Between my commute on the train and our week spent in Hawaii, I’ve been able to plow through more books than usual lately. I know I’m always on the look out for good recommendations (that don’t resemble Jane Austen), so i thought I’d share some of my favorite reads as of late.

Their Eyes Were Watching God - Zora Neale Hurston

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“The sun was gone, but he had left his footprints in the sky. It was the time for sitting on porches beside the road. It was the time to hear things and talk. These sitters had been tongueless, earless, eyeless conveniences all day long. Mules and other brutes had occupied their skins. But now, the sun and the bossman were gone, so the skins felt powerful and human. They became lords of sounds and lesser things. They passed nations through their mouths.”

I studied some of Hurston’s short stories in an African American Lit. class just before I graduated. Needless to say, some of the dialect in this piece is tough to get through at first but after a few chapters you begin to get the hang of it and the language makes it more than worth it.

The Fault in our Stars – John Green

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“Isaac kept attacking the trophies, jumping on them with both feet, screaming, breathless, sweaty, until finally he collapsed on top of the jagged trophic remnants.

Augustus stepped toward him and looked down. ‘Feel better? he asked.

‘No,’ Isaac mumbled, his chest heaving.

‘That’s the thing about pain,’ Augustus said, and then glanced back at me. ‘It demands to be felt.”

This was definitely an entertaining story about a dark topic–cancer (which is probably how it ended up on the New York Times bestseller list). But… I think I struggled with it a bit because the author is a young guy writing from a young girl’s perspective and refers to things like t-shirts as “blouses.” I’d definitely borrow this one from the library.


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Okay for Now – Gary D. Schmidt

“On Saturday mornings during deliveries, I’d practice picking out new words in Jane Eyre, sounding out the ones that needed sounding out–and I’m not lying, there were plenty. ‘A new servitude! There is something in that, ‘I soliloquized.’ I mean, who talks like that? Do you know how long it takes to sound out a word like soliloquized? And Even after you do, you have no idea what the stupid word means except that it probably just means ‘said,’ which is what stupid Charlotte Bronte should have said in the first place.

Schmidt is incredible. I hadn’t read anything this pithy yet emotional in quite a while. I think I even bought this one for my grandma for Christmas and when you’re recommending books to Grandma–you better mean business.

peacePeace Like a River- Leif Enger

“Once in my life I knew a grief so hard I could actually hear it inside, scraping at the lining of my stomach, an audible ache, dredging with hooks as rivers are dredged when someone’s been missing too long.”

Good friends recommend good books and this is one I was recommended and have since been recommending to people I’ve known for five minutes. Literally. Peace like a River was quite a surprising read actually. It mixes a world of fantastic faith, the extraordinary, and western outlaws into something truly beautiful. If you’re in the market for your next read, I’d put this one at the top of your list.

Kauai: 2013

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James and I like to browse flight prices for fun and when in November he found round trip flights from Oakland to Kauai for under $300 we rallied the troops and booked a condo.

Ever since I spent a summer living in Laie, Oahu I haven’t been able to get enough of these islands. I returned several times with my family and then with James two years ago on our honeymoon but I’d never made it to Kauai until earlier this month. Of all the islands they call Kauai the “garden” island because it’s fairly rural, covered in chickens, and incredibly green.

Although we went in early February and had our fair share of rain while we were there, most of the days blessed us with beautiful weather, several sunburns, and the best family time.

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High waist swim bottoms are from urban outfitters!

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My favorite day was the morning we spent at “Queen’s Bath.” The area is a set of pools set deep in the lava rock that you can swim in during low tide. The waves still crashed over the side but the water was beautiful and we got to watch the boys do backflips off the cliffs. We went back a few days later during high surf warnings and had a bit of a different experience.  Definitely a story for another day.

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The whole trip was quite incredible. James surfed a lot, I read a lot, we went on hikes, rented kayaks, snorkeled, stood under waterfalls, rode bikes to the beach, and ate more than our fair share of hawaiian shave ice.

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A big thanks to our good friends K&M for lots of good advice while we were on the island. Kauai 2013 was definitely one for the record books and we’re already saving our pennies for another trip next year.

Has anyone else been to Kauai? What were your favorite things to do there?

Women Carrying Houses

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I came across this print a little while ago and haven’t been able to get it out of my head since. It’s a work by Brian Kershisnik called “Women Carrying Houses.” I think I’ve been so moved by this piece because what I imagine it represents rings so true in my own life right now as I’ve: graduated, married James, began to explore a career in the corporate world, attempted to plan for a future family and then torn it up, all up, and written it over again and again as I’ve struggled to find my own sense of “balance” and compromise.

I spend 12 hours from the time I leave the house for work in the morning until the time I come home where I (and “we” as all women do) try to pull a meal together, pay bills, fold laundry, fit in a workout, walk the dog (oh, that’s right, I don’t have time to have a dog), catch up with a friend, spend time with a husband, etc etc etc all in an attempt to maintain some semblance of sanity as I come up with the rent for the space I’ve tried so hard to box all of the above up in.

I take my proverbial hat off again and again to the mamas who stay “home” with little ones and don’t get to shut down their lap tops and exhale on the train on the way home from the “office.” The ones who are always “on,” always “it,” for the little ones they’ve agreed to be the CEOs of every day of the week.

I look at the two women in Kershisnik’s piece and I see me, I see my mother, I see my college room mate, I see my grandmother, as we’ve tried and are trying to box up these neat little lives and carry them in our arms as if we’ve carried them across the plains as our only precious belongings. I’ve also stared down hopelessly as bits and as pieces of this box I, and others, have tried so hard to build come tumbling out of the windows, and rolling out of the doors, and shatter helplessly on the floor. I’d like to think that’s where the two women in this piece are now–they’ve just set the broom back in the closet after sweeping up the bits and the pieces, and have simply picked up the box once more.

a grandfather is a man grandmother

I needed to work on a project at my grandma’s house this weekend so we went up for dinner on Sunday evening. In the midst of snipping fabric and ironing on patches, sweet 86 year old Beryl’s eyes light up and she says, “I need to show you something.” Thinking her treasure was a ripe persimmon or the latest Obama article in TIME magazine, I continued snipping until she brought out this little find…

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You see, grandma used to teach “shorthand” to high schoolers in the 70s and when I said, “grandma, is that Arabic?” she proceeds to read a story she recorded once:

“A grandmother is a lady who has no children of her own, so she likes other people’s little girls. A grandfather is a man grandmother. He goes for walks with the boys and they talk about fishing and tractors or like that. Grandmothers don’t have to do anything except be there. They are old, so they shouldn’t play hard or run. It’s enough if they drive us to the market where the pretend horse is and have lots of dimes ready for us. Or, if they take us for walks, they should slow down for things like pretty leaves or caterpillars. They should never say, “hurry up.” Usually they are fat, but not too fat to tie kid’s shoes. They wear glasses and funny underwear. They can take their teeth and gums off. It’s better if they don’t typewrite or play cards except with us. They don’t have to be smart, only answer questions like, “why dogs hate cats,” and “how come God isn’t married?”

They don’t talk baby talk like visitors do because it’s hard to understand. When they read to us they don’t skip or mind if it’s the same story again.

Everyone should try to have one, especially if they don’t have television, because they are the only grown ups who have got time.”

Oh wow, my favorite parts are, “It’s better if they don’t typewrite or play cards except with us,” and “how come God isn’t married?” Hilarious. Thanks grandma.

drop me in the sea

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And then on Saturday James woke up and said, “let’s go to the ocean,” and I said “all right.” So we grabbed our coats (because that’s what you do inDecember?) and drove north up the coast to scout potential (non-shark-ridden) surf spots. With a pit stop to West Elm and a Pear pizza in the mix, I’d say this was one of the most successful Saturdays we’ve had since we moved.

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When we decided to move to California the weather and the ocean were definitely near the top of our “pro” list; I’m happy we were able to add them to our gratitude list as well this year as well as we took turns around the Thanksgiving table. I hope you were all able to enjoy safe holidays filled with family, friends, and food. We’re looking forward to following suit as we welcome Christmas and lots of rain this year!

let’s play a game…

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How many UJam classes do you think I’d have to teach to buy these beauties for myself for Christmas? Oh, that’s right–617. And teaching UJam will probably make my calves too big to fit in the “narrow shaft” that these boots have been reviewed to have anyway.

Oh Tory Burch…It’s a rough life : )

Settled in the Mountains Beside You

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Last weekend we followed four other couples up to our friend’s cabin near Tahoe. It was likely the last warm weekend before “winter” hits (I don’t think California can even call it “winter” compared to what the midwest goes through), and we wanted to enjoy the remainder of daylight savings outdoors.

The cabin was rustic, the weather was beautiful, and spending time in so much space and so much quiet can really ground you. On the last day, James and I took a quick walk up the road and sat on an empty cabin’s porch and just listened.

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Meet Kelli and meet Kelli’s great shoes.

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Meet my husband–the tree hugger.

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Inside a literal tree.

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Needless to say, we left swearing we’d own a cabin in these woods someday…and knit everybody nice sweaters and teach them all to dance.

Step right in…to the greatest show on earth

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Up until two weeks ago I thought you could see the Luxor spotlight from outer space. Turns out…that’s a big fat lie. Needless to say, the Luxor is a pretty fun place to stay if you’re into pyramids and all things old and dusty.

We decided we needed a Stauffer fix and met up in Vegas (a good middle ground between California and Utah). Because we’ve all been to Vegas more than our fair share of times, we decided to spend the weekend exploring off-the-strip restaurants, searching out new spas, and one indulgence–the Beatles “Love” show.

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The boys spent some time watching movies and laughing at boy things while Linds and I went shopping, got our nails done, and convinced some stylists at Sephora to do our hair and makeup while we waited for the boys to get back.

 

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P.s. the best thing happened to us one night while eating at a Chinese restaurant. We finished up our mountain of chow mein and sweet & sour pork and asked for our check; our server came out and told us that a couple that comes in regularly and who had been there that night had covered our check for us.

It was the kindest thing and I’ve been thinking about it a lot since we got home. Talk about pay-it-forward, eh?